2015 New Years Resolutions for Brides

January 5, 2015

I won’t make a move before I make a budget

Also known as the “reach for water before you reach for wine” resolution; this suggestion acknowledges that one of the touchier and less fun parts of planning a wedding is figuring out finances. But, if you want a smooth planning process, get the hard parts out of the way. Have an honest conversation with your fiancé about how much the two of you are willing to spend. Then, the other parts of the planning will be fun since you won’t have to worry about a financial hangover after the marriage.

I will keep things in perspective

It’s June 2^nd. Your wedding is June 16^th. And guess what? The florist just called to cancel the 20+ arrangements you ordered for your big day. You have two choices: break down/ cry/ call your fiancé to tell him you simply can’t walk down the aisle without calla lillies. Or, pull yourself together and realize you’re about to marry the love of your life; and start figuring out another vendor. No doubt, that moment will feel incredibly disappointing, but after you’re married for a year, you will barely even remember it. Stay grounded during your process; neither you or your fiancé will regret it.

Be inspired by Pinterest, but don’t become it

Modern brides have the unique opportunity to research, research, research. They come into a wedding planning session armed with print outs from blogs, Pinterest, websites, magazines, and Facebook. But, what some brides are failing to realize is that Pinterest (& company) is not a good place to start setting expectations. The Internet is flooded with “perfect” wedding moments and you have to realize that trying to emulate them all will distract from your own day. In 2015, the aim should be to research for inspiration, not simulation.

I will let go of my guilt

Listen, you’re not alone. You’re not the only bride who cries because you had to cut your guest list by 10. You’re not the only bride who can’t sleep at night because your Maid of Honor had a weird tone the last time you talked to her about bachelorette party plans. The fact of the matter is: planning a wedding is stressful. You are set up to make difficult decisions. But, you should remember that this is a good time to be reasonably selfish. Your wedding is important to you, so make the decisions that are important to you and keep moving. The guilt won’t help you enjoy your wedding day, so let it go.

I will make time for everyone at my wedding… one way or another

Wait… the last resolution was about not having guilt… I’m confused. And we at Kelly Karli Weddings understand that. But, consider this: guests are making a huge effort to come and support you, your decisions, your love, your day and (most importantly) your spouse. So, in return, you need to figure out a way to make them feel welcome. Are we suggesting a receiving line out the chapel doors for 250 people? No. Not necessarily. What we are suggesting, though, is that you figure out how to make everyone feel special. Maybe it’s a gift, a note, or a welcome DVD narrated by the bride and groom… whatever it is, spend time thinking about how to make your weddings personable for all who come to support you.

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